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We are intricately intertwined with our partner. As a result, we often want them to change in good ways. Maybe their current behavior hurts us or others. Maybe we recognize their untapped potential. Maybe we want them to change because we love them and want them to live satisfying lives.
However, too often we go about "helping" our partner in the wrong ways. If we really want results and a better relationship, we should update our understanding of how to motivate.
Which are you – a lizard or a leader? Are you a lizard – someone who responds to situations instinctually and emotionally…with anger, for instance. Or are you a leader – in control of yourself…you choose when to respond emotionally. Do you wish you were in better control of your responses? Do you wish there was something you could do to increase your steadiness, your wisdom, your control, even your happiness?
Every one of us can improve our life by training our brain. And it’s not as difficult as you might think.
